Why do we like Khilji more than Ratan? Blog#314

Why do we love Khilji more than Ratan?

I am a self-confessed film buff. Add to that the admiration for opulence and all things beautiful. How can I not then love the Sanjay Leela Bhansali genre of films! The excitement to watch the film, Padmavati is beyond words.

Now, coming to the title of this blog. My friends and I were having tea and most of them talked only about Sultan Alauddin Khilji and not about Maharawal Ratan Singh. I think it was my friend Abhishek who wondered why people tend to like only Khilji. It got me thinking too.

Shahid Kapoor and Ranveer Singh are equally formidable stars. Both are equally well regarded actors. Their popularity among the people is more or less similar. There isn’t really a reason why people should prefer Khilji over Ratan.

I did a quick research on Social media. On Twitter, Instagram and Facebook, the followers for Shahid are more than that of Ranveer. In all the platforms, Shahid is ahead of Ranveer by a sizeable number. Inspite of this, the reactions on all platforms to Khilji is much more than that for Ratan. Please see the pictures below from different platforms.

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Most of the people I talked to were interested in knowing the history of Khilji. Many of us would have googled Alauddin Khilji. Did any one of you google Ratan Singh? Look at the below chart. Our interest in Ratna Singh’s history is minimal to the point of indifference.

This is not the first time. Remember Jim Sarbh’s character from Neerja? What was there in his character to be so loved? Is it that we are more forgiving if the person committing a cruelty is good looking? Are we unable to look beyond the depth of the skin?

Do we have an affinity towards bad over good? Do we find evil to be more appealing than the benign? Do we love villains more than we love heroes? If so, why do we do so? 

Have we started preferring the headiness of being bad over the gentleness of being good? Is there a tendency to worship brute force over the kindness of heart? We see a reflection of this in our day to day lives too. People who are forceful in their assertions are looked up on as strong leaders. Those who try to take an empathetic approach are looked down up on as weak and lacking in will.

Even in movies, the applause breaks out when the Hero seeks his revenge and not when he reins in his emotions. In sitcoms too, we have started worshiping characters that are mean and evil. Look at House of Cards, Suits and the likes.

     I do not have answers to the questions presented above. Do let me know if you have.

Cabs and Principles of Economics : Blog#313

Cabs and Principles of Economics

My first job after completing graduation was in Bombay. Whenever I felt I should live a little, I used to hail a cab. Taking a Cab, a decade back was a luxury. In those days, usually people preferred auto rickshaws. Cabs were reserved for trips to railway stations, airports, emergencies and weddings.

When Ola was introduced in India, I wondered if ever there will be enough people who would prefer this kind of transport. I also remember thinking that the cost of cab rides will go down only if many people opted to use Ola cabs. When that happens, the cabs will get more trips per day and thus the cost will come down and thus the price we pay for this service becomes lesser than the value we derive out of it. This enough number of people looking for a cab is called a ‘critical mass’ and the resultant increase in the number of cabs causes the price to go down and value to go up. This is called Network Externality.

These days, I travel to work and back home almost always in cabs. Often I wonder if I should hire a micro or a prime cab.  Hiring a micro cab will meet my Need of transport. But many a time, the Want takes over and I opt for a prime cab so that I can stretch my legs and travel in comfort.

The first time ever I hailed a cab, I felt elated. I was thinking how convenient life has become! The biggest relief was due to the fact that I didn’t have to negotiate the price anymore with the drivers. I was never good at it. I always used to wonder if the drivers were taking us for a ride, literally and figuratively. But then as days went by, the elation reduced. I started to look at the service with less and less enthusiasm. May be it was the Diminishing Marginal Utility kicking in. I am not saying I don’t enjoy the service anymore. I am eternally grateful to the hailing Apps for making our travel so easy and hassle free. It is just that I don’t look at it with the same sense of wonder and admiration as I used to. Also, there are days when I miss the bus commute.  

As I was missing the bus commute, God decided to answer my prayers and give me a chance. As a result, yesterday, I waited outside my office for a very long time looking for a cab. The problem with evening time especially in the place that I work is that there isn’t anyone coming in to that area during that time. At 5 pm, there are thousands of people wanting to leave that place and reach their homes. This means that there are a lot of people wanting to hail cabs(Demand) but there are very less cabs coming in(Supply) to drop people. This imbalance causes an endless wait. Add to this, a bit of rain and then one is left with no option but to take a bus.

If I have to take a bus, I need to walk half a kilometer. I thought for a while and decided to wait for the cab for some more time. If I walk, I will get a bus soon. If I don’t walk, I will get a cab but not soon. It will take time. Basically, I need to choose between time and the effort of walking. This is called Trade off.

I waited and waited and waited. At first, I thought I will wait for 15 minutes. Once I waited for 15 minutes, I thought now that I have spent 15 minutes, let me wait a bit more. It became half an hour. Once it was half an hour, I decided I can’t just let half an hour be wasted like that. Now, I will ensure that I take a cab itself. That half an hour is my Sunk Cost.

Understanding the futility of my want for a single cab at a time when there was limited number of incoming cabs and the traffic being held hostage by the rain, I decided to take the shared cab thinking that it is the best I could do to further Utilitarianism and thus contribute in my small way to reduce traffic.  

Finally, I found a shared cab and got home forty-five minutes later which left me wondering if I should revisit my Sunk cost dilemma the next day.

Saudi Arabia on UN Women's Panel?? : Blog # 312

Saudi Arabia on UN Women's Panel??

Saudi Arabia being on the UN Women’s Panel

is

like

North Korea conducting a seminar against Dictatorship

Pakistan chairing a panel discussing stable Governments

China giving a lecture against encroachment

Somalia conducting a workshop on curbing corruption

Russia presenting a paper on free and fair elections

Australia talking about how to curb racial attacks

The American president chairing a council on diversity and inclusion

And closer home

In India,

It is like…

Kerala promoting alcohol prohibition

Punjab suggesting ways to address drug addiction

Mumbai local train giving lessons on personal space

Bangalore sharing expertise on Traffic management

Delhi teaching polite behavior

Calcutta speaking on work ethics

Haryana advocating women’s rights

Bihar advising on conducting exams

And on and on...

Journalists don’t matter! :Blog # 311

Journalists don’t matter!

It is said that Arnab Goswami has lied. Worse, he has been caught doing so. Arnab spoke about an incident that happened during Gujarat Riots. Rajdeep Sardesai said that it happened with himself and not with Arnab.

What importance does this have for common people like you and I? Is it a revelation that people in media lie? Didn’t we know this earlier? People in media, politics, business and everywhere else lie. What is so shocking about this? There are very few humans who don’t lie.

Now Rahul Kanwal has decided to go ahead and do a panel discussion about this on prime time television! This is exactly what is wrong with media these days. 

A couple of questions to those in media:

1.      How is Arnab’s lie going to affect the common man?

2.      Is Arnab’s lying something of national importance? Outside the newsrooms and media huddles, what credible impact does this event have?

3.      What is with people in media that they accord so much of importance to themselves? No one regards journalists as super humans. They are doing their work and earning their salary just like anyone else. Only people who consider people from media as Gods are those in the newsroom. I respect journalists for the good work that they do. The same way I respect an IT engineer or a Traffic Policeman or a School teacher. But beyond that, Journalists don’t matter to us. It is News that matters.

4.      What is this discussion trying to convey?

a.      Is it the fact that journalists lie? – We, the people know that already.

b.      Are you saying that if journalists lie, the fourth estate will lose its credibility and thus will weaken democracy? – We, the people have seen this over the last couple of years. Remember Neera Radia?

c.      Are you trying to make a dent in the TRP of Arab’s show? – Be creative. Do hard hitting stories. And add a bit of Arnab-ness to it. Some drama, some screaming, some emotion will help. Do not go overboard like him and silence all the panelists (Then you and him will be the same.)

5.      People deserve to know the truth. Is that your argument? We know the truth already. We have an internet connection. If you are hell bent on letting people know, add it as a one liner on your ticker. There is no need for a panel discussion.

I am no expert on media. But my humble request to those in media is to discuss the below topics:

1.       Humanitarian crises across the world (Rohingya issue)

2.      Issues with our education system

3.      Employment concerns

4.      Business environment

5.      Need for infrastructure development

6.      National politics

       Climate Change

7.      International relationships between nations

8.      Sports, Arts & Entertainment and so on.

Did you see ‘Media & Journalists’ in the above list? No. That can be discussed in your own gatherings and awards. At best, on YouTube channels – Not on prime time television please!

Now, 'The Hindu' has apologized for not doing its job and for spreading fake news regarding the Mumbai railway station mishap. It is not a wannabe website or a social media page we are talking about. It is 'The Hindu'. Where is Indian journalism headed? 

Blog on Dulquer Salman’s Filmography #6 : Blog # 310

Blog on Dulquer Salman’s Filmography #6

Ever heard of the phrase, 'spoilt for choice'?. That's exactly how Dulquer should be feeling now. There are a slew of really interesting projects lined up for DQ. To begin with, 'Solo' looks quite intriguing. It is a bilingual which is being made simultaneously in Tamil and Malayalam. It is an anthology which describes the story of 4 different people. From the little what we could see, each of the 4 characters look clearly etched out, attended to and carefully nurtured. Here are some posters. Is it just me? Or do you also see the depth in this poster? The character who is about to pull the trigger is facing a dilemma. He does not want to shoot the other person. There is a lot of pain there. Each of the other posters that are unveiled tell the tale of a similar intrigue. I so love the fact that each character is introduced in a very unique way – “World of Shiva”, “World of Shekhar” et al. One can see that this is a film made with so much of heart!

Next up is my personal favorite, Mahanati! Imagine being able to play Gemini Ganesan. What more could an actor ask for? I have felt that Tamil movie stars are stars in the true sense of the word. Me being from Kerala know that we Malayalees love our movie stars. There is no doubt about it. We respect them for the talent that they have. But the devotion that Tamil movie stars get, the demigod status that they enjoy might be missing in Kerala. That is exactly why actors like Gemini Ganesan and Sivaji Ganesan enjoyed such stratospherically high stardom and reverence. Imagine the high of playing such a character! Here is a poster of the same.

We got a glimpse worth the bat of an eyelid from the below poster that was shared on DQ’s twitter handle. The eternally elusive Sukumara Kuruppu!. He is one recluse that the Kerala police have not been able to capture in a time span of the very filmy 24 hours! J

Coming to the one we can all look forward to for now – Parava. I couldn’t find much info about the movie online. But it looks very promising. I somehow feel it will be a sort of movie that leaves our hearts uplifted and crushed all at once. Here is wishing all the best for this film. May the Parava soar far and wide. 

Here is a very minimalist tribute to some of Dulquer's best films:

Earlier blogs on Dulquer’s Filmography:

Blog 1 : The rise of a new star

Blog 2: Bangalore days and more

Blog 3 : The grand entrance to Tamil film industry

Blog 4 : Charlie all the way

Blog 5 : Comrade in America 

Shocking story of Jimikki Kammal : Blog# 309

Shocking story of Jimikki Kammal

Wonder what the lyrics of the song, Jimikki Kammal mean? Read the below story and find out J. Click here to see the lyrics of the song. Go through the lyrics quickly and then read the below story.

It was an early morning at the beautiful town of Thrissur in Kerala. Milu was having her morning tea. She suddenly heard her mother shriek. She was startled and she spilled her tea on the Mathrubhumi newspaper she was reading. Theirs was an old Kerala house with a vast compound. She thought of running to the open well first. Then she realized that the sound came from the courtyard inside the house. When she reached there, she saw her mother bawling with tears pouring. 

Worried, she asked her mother “What happened, Amma? Tell me!”. Her mother struggled for words and said “Your father…”. Milu couldn’t believe her ears. She asked “What happened to my dad? Tell me Amma! Tell me!”. Her mother angrily said “Your father is fine! But he stole my Jimikki Kammal!!!” Milu couldn’t believe her ears. She had planned to wear it for the Onam celebration at her college. She had already posted a couple of pics on her Instagram handle with hashtags #jimikkigirl #jimmikkimybestie and of course, #daddysprincess!

 

She told her mother. “Amma! There is no use crying. You should steal something which is equally valuable to dad!”. Both of them started thinking. Suddenly, an idea struck both of them! The brandy bottle that his friend gifted him! Without wasting a second, the mother went inside the bedroom and finished the bottle of brandy! Milu watched in shock. “Amma! I never knew you are such an accomplished drunkard!”. 

Intoxicated, Amma started talking to Milu. “Milu, Years before, there was a time when Chakara (Fisherman’s festival) and Vallamkali (boat race) happened together near our shores. During that time, many people lost their towels. It was at that time that I realized waves should not try to befriend the wind. Also, the warlord of the time was a womanizer.” Milu asked “What are you saying Amma? You are not making any sense!You please keep quiet and take rest!”

Amma continued “No! I want to talk. I need to give you some life lessons today. Do you know that prawns have the ability to jump only till the knees? At best, it will jump in to a pan. Not beyond that. I don’t want you to be prawns. I want you to be a Salmon who jumps across rivers and travels through the world, my dear”

 “You shouldn’t waste time playing board games. Please know that those who trouble you will never find their own life easy. Karma is a bitch!” Milu was shocked to hear her mother using the B-word.

“There are times in life when you so want to see a ray of sunshine but you shy away from stepping in to the sun. But if you don’t allow the Sun to shine on you, how will you ever see the ray? ” Milu wondered if her mother has always been this smart!

“Dear child, we take on many roles in our life. It is time you changed the current one you are donning now and faced life for what it is. Be more responsible. Be a grown up!”

“Once, your dad and I went to Malayattoor church for the festival. Something which we thought will have devastating consequences in our lives turned out to be nothing. We were so relieved. When we stepped out of the church, there was a mid-summer rain which reflected our state of minds!”

p.s. If you haven’t got it already, this is a satirical take on the lyrics of the song “Jimikki Kammal” which is taking the world by storm :). You may watch the song in the below video.

Here is an equally popular version by Sheril and her friends from Indian School of Commerce:

Mumbai Rains – Valuable Information: Blog#308

Mumbai Rains – Valuable Information

BMC Helpline: 1916

Police Helpline: 100

CR Control room: 022-22620173

WR Control room: 022-23094064

Whatsapp traffic updates: 8454999999

Advisory:

Watch out for manholes, electric lines and drainage

Avoid travel back home if you are at a safe place already

Some twitter handles to stay updated:

A letter to Vishal Sikka: Blog# 307

A letter to Vishal Sikka

Dear Vishal,

There has got to be more to life than fighting for fish heads.

Instead of drab slogging forth and back to the fishing boats, there is reason to live! We can lift ourselves out of ignorance, we can find ourselves as creatures of excellence and intelligence and skill. We can learn to be free! We can learn to fly!

This kind of thinking, he found, is not the way to make one’s self popular with other birds. Even his parents were dismayed as Jonathan spent whole days alone, making hundreds of low level glides, experimenting.

Why is it that the hardest thing in the world is to convince a bird that he can prove it for himself if he’d spend a little time practicing? Why should that be so hard?

His Sorrow was not solitude, it was that other gulls refused to believe the glory of flight that awaited them; they refused to open their eyes and see.

                                                                        ~~~

We are free to go where we wish and to be what we are.

You have the freedom to be yourself, your true self, here and now – and nothing can stand in your way!

The only true law is that which leads to freedom.

The gull sees farthest who flies highest.

                                                                        ~~~

AND

Keep working on Love.

                                                                        ~~~

Above are some quotes from the brilliant book, Jonathan Livingston Seagull by supremely talented author, Richard Bach. I thought these quotes will resonate with you.

A Well-wisher,

Arun. 

Resume of an AI Bot : Blog # 306

Resume of an AI Bot

Best Religion in the World ~ Eid Mubarak ~ Blog #305

Best Religion in the World

Do you ever wonder which is the best religion in the world? Is it yours? Is it mine? Watch this video to see my take on it. Let us pass on a hug and spread some love :). Eid Mubarak :)

For more videos,please subscribe to the YouTube channel, #PinkLungy 

Let us Save English: Blog # 304

Let’s save English!

It is time we saved English, one word at a time! Please watch and share the below video :)

 

A Pretentious Letter from the Principal’s desk: Blog # 303

A Pretentious Letter from the Principal’s desk

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication is a quote attributed to Leonardo da Vinci. Some of us writers just don’t appreciate the essence of that quote. There is a tendency for many writers to flaunt our seemingly endless vocabulary even in the smallest of articles we write. Below is the most pretentious of all letters that I have seen so far. It is from a School Principal’s desk, no less. I wonder what kind of exasperating farrago of distortions those poor kids face! ;)

Let me try to summarize the below letter in simple words:

Paragraph 1 – The world around us is changing.

Paragraph 2 – We need to teach our children good values.

Paragraph 3- Our world is in trouble.

Paragraph 4 – The generation of today need to take charge of our tomorrow.

Paragraph 5 – Our school journal ‘Beacon’ aspires to make people think, reflect and thus develop a fresh perspective towards the world. 

Arun Babu